A Teenager's Unique Needs

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

There are times when teenagers need to be with people their own age. Teenagers may need some privacy or time with their peers, especially after a traumatic event. Of course, like our own friends, friends must be chosen wisely. But often a good trusted friend or relative of similar age can provide help that an adult can’t because they have a similar perspective on life.

When they request time and place, do what you can to give it to them. Don’t hesitate to share your concerns and perspective but do not feel threatened or feel that you are a failure because they do not want to talk only with you. Sometimes, only a peer can help.

However, invite them to also share how their peers are feeling and let them know you are interested in providing whatever support you can.